It's been a nice weekend - we've gone to the ballet, to a play of Cinderella, painted t-shirts, went for a walk, went to church, did some photography and cooking together, and saw Pink Panther 2. Is it any wonder that I love Mondays? :) On to our blog for today:
Understanding the ADD Mindset
If you live with or work with someone who has ADD, it may be helpful to understand the ADD mindset to give you more understanding and empathy. Here are some tips from Susan Lasky's article in NAPO News (National Association of Professional Organizers):
ADDers experience:
- "A tremendous amount of guilt and self-effacement ("Why can't I do stuff that is so simple?")
- Regret, shame and even grief ("That's another project I started but never finished.")
- Anger/depression from being criticized by others for so many years (often seen in those (my word) who can't follow the examples of their born-organized mothers)
- Unrealistic expectations having to do with their ability to complete tasks and the amount of time it will take."
Let us not add to their burdens by being impatient or critical!!
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